My aunt, Jo Ann (Sister Jean Marie) Guokas, was born September 12, 1930, so she is 94 years old today. She's also been a nun for 75 years. In 1949, she made her first profession of religious vows as a member of the Congregation of the Incarnate Word and Blessed Sacrament. This photo of her and me was taken on June 8, 2024 at a celebration of the event (her 75th Jubilee) at the Villa De Matel in Houston, Texas, where members of her convent now reside. Normally this event might have been held closer to her feast day (which is is that of her patron saint, Jean-Marie Vianney) on August 4, I'm glad the event was held in June, so that my late husband Mark was able to attend. Unfortunately, there was not a good picture of the three of us at the event.
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Thursday, September 12, 2024
Happy 94th Birthday to My Aunt!
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Thursday, November 25, 2021
Check Registers and Home Budgets
Some of the boxes I brought home from my parents' duplex in Austin (after my parents' move to an assisted living facility in October 2017 and my father's death just a few weeks later) contained a number of notebooks, as well as 106 check registers.
The registers were dated from February, 1958, which was when my parents moved back to Houston, Texas (where Mom was born and they met) from Chicago, Illinois (where Dad was born), through November 2014. Any registers after that time would have been in Dad's financial files, which my lawyer/accountant younger sister (the executor of their estates) needed to keep.
I'd knew I'd want to take a look at these old notebooks and registers at some point, and I finally got around to doing so a few months ago, when I needed to sort through much of the things I'd brought back to decide what to keep and what could go. I decided these could go - but not until I went through all of them and made notes. I ended up with 29 pages of them! I also pulled a few registers and notebook pages as samples to keep.
The first check in the first register (most recorded in Mom's handwriting) was dated February 24, 1958, and was made out to John B. Murphy, MD, for a doctor visit and shots (smallpox and polio) for me on January 27. The check was for $10. Later that year, Murphy became chairman of the pediatrics department at St. Francis Hospital in Evanston, Illinois, where I was born.
Mom had saved the doctor's orders from my various well-baby visits in a separate place, and here is the one that corresponds to check #1. The doctor made notes of all the vaccinations I had received at that point, since we were moving to Houston:
The notebooks began in January 1963 and went monthly through August 2016, and are all in Mom's handwriting. In the last three years, they became messy, incomplete, and sporadic as time went on and Mom's frontotemporal degeneration manifested and worsened.
Most of the time, Mom just used spiral notebooks for these records, mostly from her alma mater, Incarnate Word Academy in Houston (where her sister, my aunt Sister Jean Marie (Jo Ann) Guokas, was principal from 1964-1978). A few years, she used a Simplex Home Budget Guide, but I don't think she liked its formatting (I didn't!).
In the early years, the records were very much a budget, as illustrated by the January 1963 page below. Money was tight - my parents had four children at that point.
A couple interesting observations about this page. Note that my parents paid a poll tax that month. They did so in January 1964 and January 1965 as well, but the poll tax was declared unconstitutional on February 9, 1966.
K.C. was Knights of Columbus - probably an annual membership for my dad. My parents budgeted money to donate to the United Fund and to the Catholic Church. Humble is Exxon today and that would be their automobile gasoline. Mading's was a pharmacy, and Dr. Hubert L. Reid was our pediatrician. Foley's, Nieman Marcus, Battlestein's, and Suniland Furniture were all stores where my parents had credit cards, and I'm guessing these were their monthly payments on their accounts (since the actual always matches the estimate).
Also note that there's a charge for kindergarten, even though I attended a public school (Ridgecrest Elementary in the Spring Branch Independent School District). School districts were not required to offer at least half-day kindergarten for free until May 30, 1995. Interestingly, the next year my year-younger sister and I went to school at our St. Jerome Catholic Church parish school, she in kindergarten and me in first grade, and I found no record of my parents paying tuition for either of us. It's possible that tuition was included in their church contributions, or that one of my grandparents paid it.
I could write lots more about things I found in these registers and notebooks, but I'll close with this torn piece of paper I found tucked in one of the notebooks. Mom apparently tallied the tuition she and Dad paid 1964-1979 to St. Francis de Sales Catholic School for first (second in my case) through eighth grades for me and my four siblings. As you can see, monthly tuition (especially when four of us were enrolled at the same time) was not all that high. The grand total for our educations at just this one school for 15 years was just under $6,400.00.
In a future post, I'll write about Catholic high school tuition and state university tuition and required fees. I'm thankful today that my parents invested so much in my education - I received an outstanding one through Houston-area Catholic schools.
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Thursday, November 26, 2020
Thankful Thursday Thanksgiving 2020
Thanksgiving in 2019 ended badly, with a phone call that my mother, suffering from frontotemporal degeneration primary progressive aphasia, nonfluent/agrammatic variant (FTD-nvfPPA), had aspirated part of her (hopefully-)pureed Thanksgiving dinner at her skilled nursing center and had been hospitalized. We drove in the dark to Austin, and luckily all my siblings and I got to say goodbye to her before she died two days later.
2020 has certainly been quite the year. It started well, with some day trips to Hico in January for lunch and sightseeing, and a jaunt to Austin on February 1 for my first-cousin-twice-removed Everly's first birthday party. The baby's grandfather, my cousin Tom, then a pilot with many overseas flights, talked about precautions he was taking against the novel coronavirus. He mentioned that it was difficult to find N-95 masks, having to drive 50 or so miles to get them. My youngest brother and sister, Brian and Mary, were also at that party, and that was the last time I've seen them (as well as Everly and Tom and Tom's wife Karen and daughter Katie and son-in-law Jimmy).
My other brother Mark remarried on March 1, and we were supposed to celebrate his marriage to Nazli later that month with my siblings and nieces and nephews. But then the lockdown hit. I also had to reschedule a planned celebration of life for my parents twice (and will almost certainly need to reschedule it at least once more).
Although I didn't get to travel as I'd hoped this year, I am so thankful I am retired and did not have to deal with coronavirus situations at work. I am thankful that if my husband was going to need various procedures, surgeries, and hospitalizations, they happened this year when we couldn't go anywhere else anyway (and that the hospitalizations were during early June and late September, when COVID was NOT peaking).
I'm thankful for the radiologist back in mid-April who spotted a suspicious "shadow area" on my spouse's bladder. It turned out to be cancer, but he caught it early enough. I'm thankful for the interventional radiologist who persevered and made a second attempt to insert a drainage tube in my husband's abscess in early June. That likely avoided emergency surgery and shortened the time at home with antibiotics via PICC grenades that I learned how to change. I'm thankful for ALL the great doctors and nurses and therapists and hospital staff that have helped him this year. And I am grateful that my sweetheart has recovered from all of this and is feeling MUCH better.
I am thankful for all the teachers and medical professionals and other essential workers, especially those in my family, and particularly those who have to put up with the stupidity of people who won't wear masks and avoid crowds. I am SO thankful the smart people in this country rallied and voted in a new president who will not be a super callous fragile racist sexist Nazi POTUS (nor a science-denying liar).
I'm thankful for technology like Zoom, which allowed me to attend various genealogy meetings, my 45th high school reunion, virtual tours of historic homes in the Rogers Park neighborhood of Chicago (where Dad grew up) and in Houston (where Mom grew up), and THREE book clubs, including my old group in the Seattle area. We started meeting in 2001, when our kids - now in their early 30s - started high school! I talk to my 90-year-old aunt at least once a week on Google Duo.
I can't sew masks, but I am thankful I could use my librarian skills to work on an international project to index medical device service manuals to make them freely available to biotechs during the spring surge of the pandemic. I'm also thankful for all the free time that let me work on some crowd-sourced Lithuanian genealogy projects on Geni (via a Facebook group I co-administer). I'm grateful for good weather that's allowed lots of biking and walking outdoors to keep me sane.
I have to say that I am thankful my mother passed away when she did, both because the quality of her life had greatly diminished due to FTD-nvfPPA, and because I would be worried sick not being able to see her most of this year in her skilled nursing center (wheelchair bound, on the second floor, and unable to talk). I'm thankful that my son just happened to be with his father in Oregon when the fires were so bad there in August, and that he was able to help them evacuate their rural home (which survived) and pay for their hotel. And I'm thankful for the daughter who made us some masks, and, many years ago, made the cute little handprint turkey above.
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Thursday, November 28, 2019
Thankful Thursday: Happy Thanksgiving!
All seven of the Brown and Williams grandkids were home for Thanksgiving last year (2018), so they decided to re-create a picture taken of them 13+ years earlier:
Above: November 22, 2018. Below: March 12, 2005.
From left: Adam, Lindsay, Jennifer, Drew, Holly, and Luke, with Heidi in front.

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Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thankful Thursday: Happy Birthday to My Aunt!
My aunt, Jo Ann (Sister Jean Marie) Guokas, was born September 12, 1930, so she is 89 years old today. She's also been a nun for 70 years. This photo was taken on August 4, 2019, at a celebration of the event at her convent in Houston, Texas, the Congregation of the Incarnate Word and Blessed Sacrament.
Sister Jean Marie Guokas with her nieces and nephews Mary, Brian, Karen, Mark, and Amanda Pape.
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Thursday, April 4, 2019
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Thursday, December 1, 2016
Thankful Thursday: Happy 7th Blogiversary to Me!
A Gresham family 7th birthday cake, circa 1948 - 1959
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Thursday, November 24, 2016
Thankful Thursday: Happy Thanksgiving!
decorated hay roll in Tolar, Texas, 18 November 2016
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Thursday, November 26, 2015
Thankful Thursday: Happy Thanksgiving!
This Thanksgiving, I am especially thankful for my family. I'm thankful that my dad is recovering from a serious fall last Sunday, and that I could go be with him in the hospital Monday and Tuesday and stay with my mother overnight. I'm thankful for my husband who traveled with me there and provided emotional support for me and company for my mom. I'm thankful for my siblings pulling together in this crisis and for cousins and aunts and friends who supported us in calls and visits and Facebook comments. I'm thankful for my coworkers who were supportive and covered for me while I was gone. I'm thankful for my husband's daughter and her family, with whom we'll be sharing the holiday meal today. I'm also thankful for extended family in the Chicago area opening their home to my son, newly-moved to Chicago and unable to be with his family of origin this holiday. And I'm thankful for the daughter who made the cute little turkey above.
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Thursday, December 25, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Merry Christmas!
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| Me on Christmas Day, 1960, 7913 Cedel Drive in Houston, Texas. |
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Thursday, November 27, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Happy Thanksgiving!
Thanksgiving turkey nut-holder decoration made by Eric in kindergarten, November 1991.
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Thursday, October 30, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Family Chartmasters
This post is LONG overdue!
When I attended the Texas State Genealogical Society annual conference almost a year ago, I won a door prize from Family Chartmasters. It included a $25-off gift certificate for any of their products or services.
I forgot about the gift certificate for a while (as I tend to do) until I started planning my parents' 60th wedding anniversary party, to be held in early September, 2014. I wanted something to give them as a gift, as well as to use as a decoration at the party.
On the Family Chartmasters user-friendly website (lots of helpful info and FAQs), I was intrigued by some of the custom decorative charts shown there. I decided it would be nice to have a bowtie chart, with a photo from my parents' wedding at the center, and their ancestors (back four generations) to each side, as well as their descendants (fortunately, a small group - five children with three spouses, six grandchildren with one spouse and one great-grandchild).
The process started with sending a consulting request. You can either have them extract the data from a FamilySearch family tree or submit a GEDCOM file (a standard genealogy file format) or a file from any of a number of popular genealogy software packages. I had them use my family tree on FamilySearch.org originally, but later submitted a GEDCOM file I downloaded from my tree on Ancestry.com.
Immediately after submitting the consulting request, I received an acknowledgement that it had been received, which I appreciated. Within a couple days, I heard back from company owner Janet Hovorka, aka The Chart Chick. I had submitted my request just three days before the gift certificate expired, but she assured me they would honor it through the end of the month. Whew! Big points right there to Family Chartmasters!
About a week later, Janet assigned designer Erin Roudabush to work with me. Here is the very first draft of the chart, based on the initial GEDCOM file and single photograph I submitted:
This began an exchange of 39 e-mails over the next month and a half, with Erin sending me .JPG attachments of the progress on the chart. Erin was very patient with me as I added info I'd forgotten to include in the GEDCOM file. She also suggested changes to the layout and to the cropping of photos to create the best possible product.
I was pleased to learn that the cost of the chart included up to 20 photographs, so I decided to include all the photos of ancestors that I had (some of which were also wedding photos), as well as photos of the descendants, as extra photos only added $1 each to the total cost of the first chart.
I ordered two 24" by 36" copies (one for me!) of the chart on 40-pound professional-grade paper, which is about as heavy as cardstock, archival, bright white, and UV coated, as recommended by Erin. These arrived in plenty of time for my parents' anniversary. I put one in a simple poster frame and Truluck's Arboretum, the Austin restaurant where we had the party, put it on an easel in the corner of the party room. You can see it in the background of this picture from the party (of the table with my siblings, sisters-in-law, and a first cousin and his wife):
Erin even shared the names of the fonts she used for the decorative text on the chart, so that Truluck's could match them for the printed menus for the anniversary luncheon. After the party, I hung up the picture in my parents' home.
Now, here is where Family Chartmasters' outstanding customer service really comes into play. Once you order the first chart, additional charts of equal or smaller size (even if more expensive) are half-off if ordered within 30 days. Three of my four siblings decided they wanted charts of their own, and they opted for the more expensive artist grade canvas giclee.
However - just after I ordered the chart for my parents and myself, I heard from a distant cousin in my Dienes line. She had located a baptismal record in Germany for our mutual ancestor Fred Dienes (a great-great-grandfather on my father's side). We now had his exact given name and exact date and place of birth, as well as the names of his parents and the date and place of their marriage. All of this was new information which was not on the original chart.
When I contacted Erin about getting the charts for my siblings, I asked if it was possible to make the revisions to the original chart, as I wanted to order new copies for my parents and myself. Not only did she graciously agree to make the changes, Family Chartmasters also kindly let me purchase both replacement charts at half-price, rather than one at full price and one at half-price as I expected.
Now is that great customer service, or what?
Here is the final product - click on it to open a new window and see it in larger format. [I have revised this image to remove the dates of birth for everyone who is still living.] The first 24" x 36" chart on professional paper was priced at $121.95 and the second at $60.98 (half off). Those and the generation map were all shipped together for $11.95 (standard shipping fee for up to three charts). The 24" by 36" canvas charts for my three siblings were also half-off, at $88.48 each, and all three were shipped to one of the siblings in Austin for another $11.95.
I cannot recommend Family Chartmasters highly enough. They are a joy to work with, and their products are top-notch quality. I got to meet Erin Roudabush at the Federation of Genealogical Society's 2014 conference in San Antonio at the end of August, and thank her in person for all her hard work. (And this was before she made the changes described just above!)
I also ordered a working "generation map" chart to help me identify missing information and gaps in my research, for the very reasonable price of $39.95. I hope I can find a few of those missing ancestors, and order yet another chart in the future--perhaps with some more descendants on it as well!
© Amanda Pape - 2014 - click here to e-mail me.
When I attended the Texas State Genealogical Society annual conference almost a year ago, I won a door prize from Family Chartmasters. It included a $25-off gift certificate for any of their products or services.
I forgot about the gift certificate for a while (as I tend to do) until I started planning my parents' 60th wedding anniversary party, to be held in early September, 2014. I wanted something to give them as a gift, as well as to use as a decoration at the party.
On the Family Chartmasters user-friendly website (lots of helpful info and FAQs), I was intrigued by some of the custom decorative charts shown there. I decided it would be nice to have a bowtie chart, with a photo from my parents' wedding at the center, and their ancestors (back four generations) to each side, as well as their descendants (fortunately, a small group - five children with three spouses, six grandchildren with one spouse and one great-grandchild).
The process started with sending a consulting request. You can either have them extract the data from a FamilySearch family tree or submit a GEDCOM file (a standard genealogy file format) or a file from any of a number of popular genealogy software packages. I had them use my family tree on FamilySearch.org originally, but later submitted a GEDCOM file I downloaded from my tree on Ancestry.com.
Immediately after submitting the consulting request, I received an acknowledgement that it had been received, which I appreciated. Within a couple days, I heard back from company owner Janet Hovorka, aka The Chart Chick. I had submitted my request just three days before the gift certificate expired, but she assured me they would honor it through the end of the month. Whew! Big points right there to Family Chartmasters!
About a week later, Janet assigned designer Erin Roudabush to work with me. Here is the very first draft of the chart, based on the initial GEDCOM file and single photograph I submitted:
This began an exchange of 39 e-mails over the next month and a half, with Erin sending me .JPG attachments of the progress on the chart. Erin was very patient with me as I added info I'd forgotten to include in the GEDCOM file. She also suggested changes to the layout and to the cropping of photos to create the best possible product.
I was pleased to learn that the cost of the chart included up to 20 photographs, so I decided to include all the photos of ancestors that I had (some of which were also wedding photos), as well as photos of the descendants, as extra photos only added $1 each to the total cost of the first chart.
I ordered two 24" by 36" copies (one for me!) of the chart on 40-pound professional-grade paper, which is about as heavy as cardstock, archival, bright white, and UV coated, as recommended by Erin. These arrived in plenty of time for my parents' anniversary. I put one in a simple poster frame and Truluck's Arboretum, the Austin restaurant where we had the party, put it on an easel in the corner of the party room. You can see it in the background of this picture from the party (of the table with my siblings, sisters-in-law, and a first cousin and his wife):
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| photo courtesy Katie Streff Lyke - Live Love Lyke Photography |
Erin even shared the names of the fonts she used for the decorative text on the chart, so that Truluck's could match them for the printed menus for the anniversary luncheon. After the party, I hung up the picture in my parents' home.
Now, here is where Family Chartmasters' outstanding customer service really comes into play. Once you order the first chart, additional charts of equal or smaller size (even if more expensive) are half-off if ordered within 30 days. Three of my four siblings decided they wanted charts of their own, and they opted for the more expensive artist grade canvas giclee.
However - just after I ordered the chart for my parents and myself, I heard from a distant cousin in my Dienes line. She had located a baptismal record in Germany for our mutual ancestor Fred Dienes (a great-great-grandfather on my father's side). We now had his exact given name and exact date and place of birth, as well as the names of his parents and the date and place of their marriage. All of this was new information which was not on the original chart.
When I contacted Erin about getting the charts for my siblings, I asked if it was possible to make the revisions to the original chart, as I wanted to order new copies for my parents and myself. Not only did she graciously agree to make the changes, Family Chartmasters also kindly let me purchase both replacement charts at half-price, rather than one at full price and one at half-price as I expected.
Now is that great customer service, or what?
Here is the final product - click on it to open a new window and see it in larger format. [I have revised this image to remove the dates of birth for everyone who is still living.] The first 24" x 36" chart on professional paper was priced at $121.95 and the second at $60.98 (half off). Those and the generation map were all shipped together for $11.95 (standard shipping fee for up to three charts). The 24" by 36" canvas charts for my three siblings were also half-off, at $88.48 each, and all three were shipped to one of the siblings in Austin for another $11.95.
I cannot recommend Family Chartmasters highly enough. They are a joy to work with, and their products are top-notch quality. I got to meet Erin Roudabush at the Federation of Genealogical Society's 2014 conference in San Antonio at the end of August, and thank her in person for all her hard work. (And this was before she made the changes described just above!)
I also ordered a working "generation map" chart to help me identify missing information and gaps in my research, for the very reasonable price of $39.95. I hope I can find a few of those missing ancestors, and order yet another chart in the future--perhaps with some more descendants on it as well!
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Thursday, October 16, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Happy Birthday to My Baby Sister!
This photo is from one of my sister Mary Elaine's birthdays, in 1973 or later, in the den at our home at 8015 Sharpview Drive in Houston, Texas. I know the photo was taken in 1973 or later because Mom won the patio set (you can see the umbrella in the background) at the St. Agnes Academy Autumn Fest, and the first Autumn Fest was held in November 1972. My mother is also wearing this dress in a picture dated June 1974, which makes the 1973 or 1974 dates the most likely. We were probably celebrating Mom's birthday as well, since it was just three days later.
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Thursday, September 11, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Happy 60th Anniversary to My Parents!
Sixty years ago today, my parents were married in Houston, Texas. The photo above (taken by my first-cousin-once-removed, the awesome nurse and photographer Katie Streff Lyke) is from their anniversary party this past Sunday at the Capri Room of Truluck's Arboretum in Austin, Texas.
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Thursday, September 4, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Report on #FGS2014 in San Antonio
This past Saturday, August 30, I attended the Federation of Genealogical Societies 2014 (#FGS2014) conference in San Antonio. I would have liked to have attended the entire conference, but the fact that it fell during the first week of classes at my university (AND during the year we'd just completed a major library renovation creating a new learning commons) meant that getting work time off to go was not possible.
Fortunately, the Federation of Genealogical Societies (FGS) and co-hosts, the Texas State Genealogical Society (TSGS) and the San Antonio Genealogical and Historical Society, offered a special Saturday-only half-price rate of $49.99 to attend that day. I couldn't pass up the opportunity to hear five nationally-known speakers AND get the syllabus (464 pages!) with information from all the other myriad of sessions I could not attend, both Saturday and Wednesday through Friday.
I drove down to Austin after work on Friday and spent the night at my parents' home. I got up before the sun on Saturday and made the 90-minute drive to the Henry B. Gonzales Convention Center, arriving in time for the first (8:30 AM) session.
Here are the sessions I attended:
1. Elizabeth Shown Mills of Evidence Explained fame on Okay I "Got the Neighbors" - Now What Do I Do With Them? on the importance of searching with context
2. The Accidental Genealogist Lisa Alzo on Ten Ways to Jumpstart Your Eastern European Research (which provided some useful tips for tracking down my elusive Lithuanian ancestors)Fortunately, the Federation of Genealogical Societies (FGS) and co-hosts, the Texas State Genealogical Society (TSGS) and the San Antonio Genealogical and Historical Society, offered a special Saturday-only half-price rate of $49.99 to attend that day. I couldn't pass up the opportunity to hear five nationally-known speakers AND get the syllabus (464 pages!) with information from all the other myriad of sessions I could not attend, both Saturday and Wednesday through Friday.
I drove down to Austin after work on Friday and spent the night at my parents' home. I got up before the sun on Saturday and made the 90-minute drive to the Henry B. Gonzales Convention Center, arriving in time for the first (8:30 AM) session.
Here are the sessions I attended:
1. Elizabeth Shown Mills of Evidence Explained fame on Okay I "Got the Neighbors" - Now What Do I Do With Them? on the importance of searching with context
3. Diving into Archives: Uncovering ArchiveFinder and ArchiveGrid with FGS President and librarian D. Joshua Taylor (hopefully some of my workplace collections will be listed on ArchiveGrid soon!)
4. Beyond X & Y: Using Autosomal DNA for Genealogy with The Legal Genealogist Judy Russell, an entertaining and easy-to-understand explanation of the potential and limits to those DNA tests I did on Mom and Dad
5. Tips for Finding Ethnic Origins at Ancestry with Julianna Szucs Smith of Ancestry.com - I'm hoping this will help me find some other elusive ancestors on passenger lists or in naturalization records.
Most of the gaps between the earlier sessions were 45 minutes long, allowing time to visit the exhibit hall. In the first one, I got most of the ribbons to add to my FamilySearch-lanyarded name badge, as well as my cool blogger beads (with cowboy boots and cacti; badge, ribbons & beads pictured above), sponsored by MyHeritage.com (which, I learned from Lisa Alzo's session, might be a good site for me to join as they have a huge number of members from Lithuania). I also ran into Thomas MacEntee of Geneabloggers, who I'd always wanted to meet.
I also got to meet Erin Roudabush with Family Chartmasters who had been working on a bowtie-with-descendants chart for my parents' upcoming 60th wedding anniversary (more on that in a future post). I won a gift certificate from them at last year's TSGS conference, and had finally gotten around to using it.
At the RootsMagic booth, I took advantage of a conference special and purchased three of their software products for less than the price of two (with the RootsMagic user manual thrown in for free) - since I need something to replace the now-unsupported PAF (free Personal Ancestral File) software and start a well-documented family tree offline.
I had lunch with my librarian friend Amy Coffin of the We Tree Genealogy Blog, Lisa Alzo, and Kathryn Doyle of the California Genealogical Society & Library at a great River Walk restaurant called Maria Mia Mexican Bistro, where I had an awesome mango salad with jicama, avocado, chicken, and cilantro lime dressing. I enjoyed listening to these FGS conference pros talk.
This was my first national genealogy conference - hopefully it won't be my last.
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Thursday, April 10, 2014
Thankful Thursday: Happy National Siblings Day!

I'm away from home and my stash of photos, so I am re-posting some photos already in this blog. Above left is from 1965, above right is Easter 1973. Below is from the summer of 1968.
Above is a photo from 1997 (I'd just gotten a perm). I am thankful for my siblings Karen, Mark, Brian, and Mary.
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Thursday, May 10, 2012
Thankful / Those Places Thursday: Lithuanian Payoff to Blogging
| Birth/baptism record from St. George Catholic Church, Smilgiai, Lithuania, for my great-grandfather Charles (Kazimieras) Guokas, born 27 February 1863 |
A couple days ago, I was contacted by Osvaldas Guokas in Lithuania. He'd read this blog and used the contact button at the end of a post to send me an e-mail. He said, "Our Lithuanian last name Guokas is not usual in Lithuania. My father Vytautas Guokas (RIP) was born near [the] small town [of] Smilgiai. It is only one place in Lithuania w[h]e[r]e we can find [a] few tombstones with last name Guokas."
Smilgiai caught my eye, because an obituary my mother had for her great uncle Anton Guokas (1875-1947) said he was from this parish in Lithuania - so I assume his older brother, my great-grandfather, Charles Peter Guokas Sr. (1863-1939), was from there, too.
Osvaldas, who is about 17 years younger than me, offered to help. I gave him the birthdates of Charles and Anton and their brother Joseph (1869-1963), and their names in Lithuanian (Kazimieras, Juozas, and Antanas - the obituary for Anton was in Lithuanian; Mom had it translated).
Next thing I know, Osvaldas sent me the birth/baptism record pictured above, from St. George Catholic Church in Smilgiai. Osvaldas says:
"Text in Russian means that parents of Kazimieras (Charlie) were:
Peasants Jonas and Marija Å ukyte,Guokas in lawful marriage.
[He] was born 1863 year February 27 day, in Smilgiai parish, village Celkiai. [This is my great-grandfather's date of birth, and I can clearly read the 1863 and 27 in the record picture above.]
In Russian it was written: 'krist. Yana i Mariany iz Shukov Gokov...'
Original Lithuanian names are Jonas (Yan), Marija (Mariana), last names Å ukytÄ (Shukov), Guokas (Gokov).
Äelkiai (Chelkiai in english), [is a] village near Smilgiai (~10km to north from Smilgiai). Godfather was Antanas Guokas. I think that Antanas is [the] father of my grandfather Justinas (I'm so thinking, I need to prove it)."
Stay tuned - I am hoping to find out more! Just wanted to show you blogging about your family history pays off. I now have the name of my great-great-grandfather, Jonas Guokas - before, all I had was his first initial.
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Thursday, November 24, 2011
52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History: Fall - Thankful Thursday Thanksgiving
The prompt for Week 47 of 52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History is Fall:
What was fall like where and when you grew up? Describe not only the climate, but how the season influenced your activities, food choices, etc.
Well, I spent the first 27 years of my life in southeast Texas (Houston, College Station & Washington County, San Antonio, and Corpus Christi), where autumn (I prefer that term to fall) means it's not quite as hot as summer, it might rain a little more, and (when I was in junior high, high school, and college), you go to football games (St. Francis de Sales, St. Thomas, and Texas A&M respectively).
Then I spent the next 21 years in the Seattle area, where autumn meant much cooler temperatures, skies that were mostly gray, and - because it is the Evergreen State - not that much autumn color. Sometimes, though, you'd luck out with a perfect day, sunny, not too cold, and you'd find riotous hues:
Now I'm back in Texas, albeit in the northern part of the state. Sometimes autumn is pretty warm (a high this fall of 100 on September 29), sometimes it's pretty cool (a low so far of 28 on November 4). Today is a pretty typical day - it's sunny and 68 at 3 PM, and we just got back from walking to a local diner for a Thanksgiving dinner. We'll be with Mark's family in McKinney tomorrow, and we couldn't both go there and to Austin for Thanksgiving with my family today (they're about six hours apart).
Autumn means I eat more soups (since it's finally cool enough!). Autumn means I'll be walking more and biking less, because the days ARE shorter and cooler and it's more windy. However, Mark is asleep on the couch after all that turkey, and I'm about to head out on a bike ride, since it IS glorious today.
November in particular is a tough month for me. I've suffered some personal losses in this month, such as a divorce filing and the death of my maternal grandmother. It was particularly hard when I lived in Seattle and was so far away from family, especially combined with the often-gloomy weather. I remember my very first month in Seattle was November 1984, and all it did that month was rain (or snow), and I thought, "what have I done?" I remember my son Eric making a little book in kindergarten (1991) with his illustrations to these last few words of Thomas Hood's poem "No!", and thinking how fitting they were:


Today I'm very thankful for my family, and to be living once again in Texas.
© Amanda Pape - 2011 - click here to e-mail me.
What was fall like where and when you grew up? Describe not only the climate, but how the season influenced your activities, food choices, etc.
Well, I spent the first 27 years of my life in southeast Texas (Houston, College Station & Washington County, San Antonio, and Corpus Christi), where autumn (I prefer that term to fall) means it's not quite as hot as summer, it might rain a little more, and (when I was in junior high, high school, and college), you go to football games (St. Francis de Sales, St. Thomas, and Texas A&M respectively).
Then I spent the next 21 years in the Seattle area, where autumn meant much cooler temperatures, skies that were mostly gray, and - because it is the Evergreen State - not that much autumn color. Sometimes, though, you'd luck out with a perfect day, sunny, not too cold, and you'd find riotous hues:
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| My aunt Sister Jean Marie Guokas, my grandmother Sara Wolfe Guokas Archibald, and my son Eric Bolme at the Washington Park Arboretum, Seattle, October 29, 1990 |
Autumn means I eat more soups (since it's finally cool enough!). Autumn means I'll be walking more and biking less, because the days ARE shorter and cooler and it's more windy. However, Mark is asleep on the couch after all that turkey, and I'm about to head out on a bike ride, since it IS glorious today.
November in particular is a tough month for me. I've suffered some personal losses in this month, such as a divorce filing and the death of my maternal grandmother. It was particularly hard when I lived in Seattle and was so far away from family, especially combined with the often-gloomy weather. I remember my very first month in Seattle was November 1984, and all it did that month was rain (or snow), and I thought, "what have I done?" I remember my son Eric making a little book in kindergarten (1991) with his illustrations to these last few words of Thomas Hood's poem "No!", and thinking how fitting they were:
...no butterflies, no bees.Thanksgiving has been the one bright spot in the month. When my grandmother passed away on November 16, 1997, I was in the midst of a long pre-divorce separation, and my offspring spent that holiday with the soon-to-be-ex, so I decided to stay in Texas after the funeral through the holiday. My siblings treated me to a haircut and massage and manicure and pedicure, things I certainly could not afford for myself at the time. The five of us had a new group portrait done of ourselves for our parents. And, it was warm enough to eat Thanksgiving dinner outside:
No fruits, no flowers, no leaves, no birds.
November!


Today I'm very thankful for my family, and to be living once again in Texas.
© Amanda Pape - 2011 - click here to e-mail me.
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