Memories for Father's Day

This isn't specifically a memory about Father's Day, but it is a memory of my dad.  The photo below is from a visit from my parents when my children and I lived in Washington state, in October 1990.  My father, Frederick Henry Pape (1929-2017), and my daughter Diane, then about 19 months old, are at the Washington Park Arboretum in Seattle.

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Chicago Catholic Cemetery Records

This is the third in a series of three posts about researching Lithuanians in the Chicago area, where many of them settled after immigrating to the United States. (Here is the first post, and here is the second post.)

Most Lithuanian Catholics in Chicago were buried in St. Casimir Catholic Cemetery, which was originally designated as a Lithuanian cemetery.  It opened in 1903, and burial cards from that year through about 1988 are available on FamilySearch.

You want to search the Illinois, Archdiocese of Chicago, Cemetery Records, 1864-1989 collection on FamilySearch, here:  https://www.familysearch.org/en/search/collection/1503083 

My recommendation is to start with just the surname.  This is because first names were sometimes Anglicized for St. Casimir, particularly in later years, but more often, especially in earlier years, the Lithuanian first name was used.  Plus, if you enter only the last name, you'll pull up others with the same last name (or similar spellings) that may be related.

Above is a picture of the home page for this collection.  I entered Guokas for the last name, and clicked the Search button.  Below is an image of the first part of the results.

There were 38 results in all, some of which were "sounds like" (and Soundex) spellings that were pretty far off.  But the exact matches appear first, and I was looking for Juozapas (Joseph) Guokas, my second cousin thrice removed.  When you find a person you're looking for (or are interested in), I recommend clicking on the icon that looks like a piece of paper, and clicking on that for the record details.  Below is an image of the record details for Juozapas Guokas.

Some things to pay attention to in the record pictured above:

- the top arrow on the right points to the name of the cemetery (here, it is St. Casimir, but some Lithuanian immigrants were buried in other Catholic cemeteries);

- the bottom arrow on the left points to a "Copy Citation" button, which you'll want to do to properly source and document this information in Geni and other genealogy sites; and

- the "View Original Document" button just under the image of the card.  That opens the image to provide a larger view, like in the image below.

Some things to pay attention to in the record pictured above:

- the location (grave, lot, block, and/or section numbers) for the grave;

- the home address for the deceased - which might be helpful for finding the family on a census or in a directory;

- the internment date, which may also help you locate an obituary; and

- the age and burial permit number, which might also be recorded on a death certificate - and can help you make sure you have the right person, especially with more common Lithuanian surnames.

I also want to point out the arrow at the far right, which appears when you hover near it - you can click that to look at the next burial card for St. Casimir.  I strongly encourage doing that, because these are supposed to be in alphabetical order, and you may encounter another family member.  But before you do, make a note of the grave location.

Clicking the next image button brought up a burial card for Kazimieras Guokas, who is buried in the same block and lot as Juozapas, which strongly indicates a relationship.  Kazimieras (Charles) Guokas is Juozapas' son.

Clicking on the Next Image arrow on the page with Kazimieras' burial card brought up that of Petronella (Sukys) Guokas, who is his mother and the wife of Juozapas.  Note in the image below that she is also buried in the same lot and block, and that she was living in Ohio at the time of her death, at age 70 and nearly 20 years after her husband's death.  Besides being an indicator of where to look for a civil death record and an obituary, it's also a hint that another family member was probably also living in Youngstown or at least nearby in Ohio. 

Finally, don't forget to also scroll forward.  Doing so from Juozapas' burial card brought up that of Julijonas Guokas, who is the son of Juozapas and Petronella, and the brother of Kazimieras, and buried in the same lot and block.

In the image above, also note that there is more than one way to maneuver through these images.  Besides the Next Image and Previous Image (pictured, in the middle) buttons, you can also enter an image number in the box at upper left, or click on a different image in the scroll bar at the bottom.

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You'll also want to use the Archdiocese of Chicago Catholic Cemeteries "Locate a Loved One" web page, at https://www.catholiccemeterieschicago.org/locate-a-loved-one/ - an image is below.  This tool is particularly helpful if you have someone buried after the end date for the burial cards (which is 1988 for St. Casimir, and anywhere from 1986 to 1988 for other cemeteries).  Sometimes there are name spelling differences between the cards and these official records, which will also show up here.

You'll need to fill out your first and last name, an e-mail address, and check at least the second box (an agreement that you won't use the information provided "for any commercial purposes or financial gain").  Then click the Request button, and check your e-mail, which will look something like the one pictured below.

You'll need to click the "Locate Your Loved Ones" button in this e-mail to access the system.  You'll get a search page like the one below.

I suggest entering just the last name, and leaving the default to search all cemeteries.  This system won't bring up alternate spellings, but you can enter as few as two letters in the last name field (and in that case, I'd suggest adding at least a first initial and/or selecting a cemetery, because I got 12,612 results when I entered just Gu for the last name).  It will bring up everything that starts with the letters you entered.

Before we get to the results, I want to point out the timer at the upper right.  When you get down somewhere around five minutes or less, a window will pop up, like the one below, offering to extend your time, and you'll get 15 more minutes if you click yes.  I'm not sure how many times this window will pop up, though.

Below are the results for my search on Guokas.  There are only seven, and they are all buried at St. Casimir.  I clicked on the view button for my relative Juozapas.

Below is the top part of the page that will next appear.  On the left is the information that was also on the burial card, but there's also a link to view the grave location on Google Maps, and another link to bring up a QR code that will also take you to the location on Google Maps.  And just to be sure, the location is also shown on a Google map on the right.

In the image above, I also marked the buttons you can click to have this information e-mailed to you (and the web page updates to indicate the email was sent), and a button to download a PDF of the information.  Below is an example of the e-mail sent.

Note that the e-mail also includes a link to view the location on Google Maps.  Below is an image of what the PDF looked like (click on it to view it larger).  You get a section map on the left, a cemetery map on the upper right, the burial record information, and a QR code to view the location on Google Maps.

Note in the image above that I highlighted something that differs from the information on the burial card.  This record indicates Juozapas is buried in Section (not Block) 9.  

Going back to the record page for Juozapas, if you scroll down the page, you can also access the cemetery map, and download a PDF (which, for this cemetery, is high quality).

Scroll even further down the page, and you'll also find a section map you can download.  Unfortunately, for Section 9 at least, this image is a poor quality PNG image and not especially readable.  Perhaps they will be updated someday.

And here is a link to the FindAGrave memorial for Juozapas Guokas, which includes an image of the tombstone, which he shares with his wife and the two sons who predeceased him.  The engraving is in Lithuanian:  https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/188095962/joseph-guokas

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Chicago Lithuanian Catholic Churches

This is the second  in a series of three posts about researching Lithuanians in the Chicago area, where many of them settled after immigrating to the United States. (Here is the first post, and here is the third post.)

I created a mapping tool to help people with Lithuanian ancestors who settled in Chicago before 1915-1925 to find Catholic Church records (baptisms, marriages, and deaths) in that area.  The tool uses Google's My Maps feature, and can help you find the nearest Catholic Church (serving predominantly Lithuanians) to a given address.  Here's a link to it:  https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?mid=1ptiPg9tl9szvKo-q7MItfQGRahkkMzd6&usp=sharing

For this example, I'm looking for the church where two of my relatives married - Juozapas (Joseph) Guokas (my second cousin thrice removed) and Petronėlė Šukytė (Petronella Sukys).   I had an address for Joseph from his 1904 naturalization index card, so I started by entering that address.*  When you start to type it in, Google will make suggestions, and in this case the first one was correct.

Once you hit enter, a pin will be dropped at the address location.  Then, you can zoom outward on the map to find the nearest church icon - in this case, it was really close (see the red arrow).

Click on the church icon, and it will bring up some information about the church - its address, current use (some are no longer Catholic churches; some have been demolished), and links to a 1920 book that often has pictures and history of the church.  There's more information too - we'll get to that in a bit.

Immigrants often moved around a lot, especially in their early years in the United States, and I had another address for Joseph, this one from a 1911 directory.  (I've been unable to find him on the 1910 Census).  When I entered this one, I could see right away that the closest church was the same - All Saints on S. State Street.

Clicking on the church icon again, and this time scrolling down a bit, you'll see that I have also included a link to the church records available (free) on FamilySearch.  

Clicking on the link for All Saints brings you to the page pictured below.  Some -not all - of the Archdiocese of Chicago Catholic Church records are indexed (searchable) there, and some (not all) are indexed and available at FindMyPast.  All Saints' records are not indexed (yet) in either place.  However, often there is an internal index available.  That's the case here, so I clicked on the link for "Marriages, 1906-1925 with index."

This brings up the first image in the record set.  Since I want to jump around a little bit, rather than scroll through page by page, I click on the View Grid icon.

This brings up small images of each page in the record set.  If you click on the image below to view it larger, you can tell that the first 3+ rows have the index pages in them.  I'll make an educated guess as to which one has the surnames beginning with G (the groom's name is almost always the only one indexed), and then scroll backwards or forwards as needed to get to it.

So here is the top half of the page with surnames beginning with G.  While none of the names are exactly what I'm looking for, the third one on the left, Juozas Goks, looks closest to Guokas.  (The other name I marked, Stanislaus Gokas, turned out to be Joseph's brother).  Keep in mind that surnames will often be misspelled, and that first names are often in Latin form (although in this case, it's Lithuanian).

Although the "Pagina" (Latin for page) would seem to indicate that Joseph's record is on page 28, in this case, 28 is a record number.  And here is the marriage record for Joseph and Petronella - below, I have combined an image of the top of the page with their record, which actually appears at the bottom of the page.  (Click on the image to view it larger.)

These Catholic Church marriage records will always have, at a minimum, the names of the bride and groom (including the bride's maiden name), the date of the marriage, and the officiant.  Sometimes there is other useful information.  In this case, we have the bride's and groom's ages (which can help you narrow down the year of birth), the names of both of their parents (including their mothers' maiden names), and the names of the witnesses, who are often relatives.  As mentioned earlier, Stanislaus Goks (Stanislovas Guokas) is Joseph's brother.  Petronella's grandmother was a Banaitis, so witness Justinus Banaitis is probably related to her.  Sometimes you are lucky and even get the name of the places where the bride and groom were baptized.

If you don't find the people you're looking for at the nearest Lithuanian Catholic Church, try zooming out more on the map to find the next closest one.  Pay attention to the year the church opened - the event you're looking for may have happened at an older Lithuanian church nearby.  It's also possible the event occurred at a parish that was not primarily Lithuanian.  You might try Chicago Ancestors, a good mapping tool from the Newberry Library to find churches and other points of interest near a particular address.

Also, keep in mind that the Chicago Archdiocese has only made records available through 1925 - and, in cases of churches that were still open when these records were originally microfilmed, only through 1915.  

* Check the "Location Links" tab here on my blog for other useful Chicago and Lithuanian research links.  I used the "Street name changes" link in the "Chicago - Maps, Streets, & Property" section there to find the current street name for Joseph's 1904 address - it had changed from Curtis in 1904 to Edbrooke today.

I hope you find this map helpful.  Please send me an e-mail (use the link at the end of this post) or comment if you find any broken links in the map.

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Finding Obituaries in Draugas - The Chicago-area Lithuanian-language Newspaper

This is the first in a series of three posts about researching Lithuanians in the Chicago area, where many of them settled after immigrating to the United States.  (Here is the second post, and here is the third post).

This post is about finding obituaries in Draugas, the Chicago-area Lithuanian-language newspaper, which began publication in 1909 and is still going strong today.  Here is a link to the page to search its archives:

https://www.draugas.org/archyvas-paieska-search/

This will take you to the page pictured below.  The first link under "Paieška" lets you search the archive from 1909 through 2007, which is open to everyone.

When I click on that link, it brings up the following search page.  In this example, I am looking for an obituary for Juozapas (Joseph) Guokas, my second cousin thrice removed, who I already knew (from other sources) died April 22, 1938.  I decided to start just by entering his surname in the search box.

There were only 13 results, and none of them were him.  But the search mechanism for Draugas has an interesting fluke.

As mentioned on the initial search page, in Lithuanian, they don't know why, but when searching for a last name, the search finds a larger number of results when searching by last name together with the first name or first initial instead of presenting only the last name (e.g. J. Basanavičius instead of Basanavičius).  So I decided to try that, searching for "Juozapas Guokas" (but without quotation marks), and sure enough, there was a link to him.

 

Before looking at the obituary itself, here's another way to search for them, but you'll need to know at least the year of death, and ideally the date of death or burial.  Use the index - here is the link:

https://www.draugas.org/rodykle-index/

Here's what that page looks like.  I clicked on the link for 1938.

On the page for each year, there's another search box, so I tried searching for Guokas again.

This time, it did bring up a single result, for my Juozapas Guokas.

However, before we look at the actual obituary, here's a way to look for an obituary that doesn't come up with a search.  If you know the date of death, start checking issues on that date, out to about a week later.  If you know the date of burial, start by checking the issue on that date (or the day after), and go backwards about a week.  You can also check the whole month (and, if necessary, the first part of the next month) if you only know the month the death occurred.

Note that the newspaper isn't published every day.  Also, note that sometimes there will be multiple copies of the same issue (indicated by various designations after the date, and usually because scans were provided from more than one source repository).

Juozapas Guokas died on April 21, but his obituary wasn't published until April 25.  When you click on the link for that date, you get an image like the one below.  Obituaries are almost always near the end of the issue, so I use the scroll bar on the right to slide to the last page and then scroll up, or you can enter the last page in the page counter at the top and jump to that.  Or you can do a page search for your last name, or the first few letters of it.  I found it's easiest to jump to the end and scroll up, because most obituaries have the same format.

And here is the obituary for Juozapas Guokas, on the fifth of sixth pages for this issue.  As you read more of these, you'll quickly learn key words and be able to pic out the names of relatives.

You can always highlight the text and copy it ...

... and then paste it into Google Translate, OCR errors and all, to get a rough translation.

Here's the important information, as far as I'm concerned, with my rough translations (in other words, what I've come to know these various words and abbreviations mean):

Juozapas Guokas died (mirė) April (Bal.) 21, 1938.  He came from (kilo) Panevėžio district (apskr.), Smilgių parish (parap.), Valiliškių village (kaimo).  He lived in (išgyveno) America 35 years (metus).  He is survived by his wife (moterj) Petronėlė, maiden name (po tėvais) Šukiutė, son (sūnų) Peter (Petrą), daughter (dukterį) Stella (Stanislovą), two brothers (du brolius): Julius (Julijoną) and (ir) Stanley (Stanislovą) and his family (ir jo šeimą), sister (seserį) Domicėlę Žukauskienę  and her family (ir jos šeimą), and many others.

The obituary goes on to name the funeral home (Anthony Petkus) and give information about the funeral.  This one is on the 26th at St. Anthony parish church (Šv. Antano par. bažnyčią) - that would be the one in Cicero, a Lithuanian parish.  Almost all Lithuanian Catholics in the south part of Chicago were buried at St. Casimir Cemetery (Šv. Kazimiero kapines), then almost entirely Lithuanian, and almost all were buried the same day as the funeral Mass. 

As you can see, these obituaries are a goldmine of information!

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Memorial Day 2006: I Meet Noël and Her Family for the First Time

On Memorial Day, May 29, 2006, Mark and I drove to his daughter Kim's house in Allen, Texas, for a family gathering.  His other daughter, Noël Blaschke, was visiting with her family from their home in Fort Mill, South Carolina.  Here is a photo of Mark taken that day with his daughters Kim (on the left) and Noël (on the right):

And here are some more photos of Mark with Noël and her family taken that day.

Above:  Mark with Blaschke grandchildren Austin, Evan, and Madison.

Below:  Mark is pointing something out (a common gesture for him) to son-in-law Philip Blaschke and daughter Noël Gresham Blaschke.

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Mark Gresham's Quiche

Last week I made Mark Gresham's recipe for Quiche Florentine.  He first made this for me at my apartment in Corpus Christi, probably in 1979, and it was something we ate pretty regularly since it was pretty easy to make.  

Like most good cooks, Mark did not have this recipe written down.  I watched him make it a few times and wrote it down on an index card.  And as a good cook (boy I was SO lucky), the quantities Mark put in of some of the ingredients - especially the green onions, mushrooms, swiss cheese, and butter (not margarine!) - could vary from quiche to quiche.

Above and below:  My recipe card (front and back) for Mark's quiche - written about 1979.

Above:  The completed quiche.

Below:  The last piece of this quiche - last night's dinner.

Yesterday, I ate the last piece of this one.  I experimented a little and, instead of using a box of frozen chopped spinach, I used bags of salad spinach that I'd put in the freezer shortly after buying them - I chopped and weighed until I had ten ounces.  I think Mark would be proud of me.

Making it brings back some lovely memories of our early times together.  This recipe is something I will definitely be making frequently.

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Nineteen Years Ago: Graduation and the Next Eleven Days

Saturday, May 13, 2006, was my graduation with a Master of Science in Library Science (MSLS) from the University of North Texas.  Mark wore a coat and tie for this event, too.

Continuing the story from yesterday - things moved pretty fast the next eleven days.  

On Monday, May 15, 2006, I followed up on a couple applications I'd submitted for jobs I was particularly interested in, and determined I wasn't likely to get them.  Late that day, I was contacted by Tarleton State University in Stephenville, Texas, and asked to come for an interview on Thursday, May 18, for the Special Services Librarian position I'd applied for on May 11.

On Tuesday, May 16, 2006, Mark drove with me to Jacksonville, Texas, so he could check out the town while I had an interview at Lon Morris College, a private church-run junior college.  The job had some interesting perks (not having to work in June or July, as I recall), but as it turned out, the college filed for bankruptcy on July 2, 2012, and the campus was auctioned off on January 14, 2013.  

On Thursday, May 18, 2006, I interviewed at Tarleton, where librarians do not have faculty status.  This interview was only a half-day, with the key part being the first hour spent with the search committee, the rest mostly being tours.

I don't remember much about the interview, other than I thought it went well.  I received a call from them later that afternoon, as I pulled into the driveway of my brother's home for a long weekend in Austin.  I was offered the job and I accepted it immediately.

So why was that?  

Although we could have lived in Corpus Christi - and I wonder sometimes if Mark would have been happier there, closer to his best friend / "brother" Tom Utter - I don't remember discussing the decision much, other than Mark saying something to the effect that "it was just as well, as Tom and I would probably just get in trouble again."  (Maybe I was afraid of that too.)  Maybe the pay differential (if there even was one) did not offset the hassles of faculty status in Kingsville.  Or maybe the Tarleton job just felt right - as indeed, it turned out to be just right.

On Friday, May 19, 2006, I was in Austin for cousin's daughter's graduation and party, and Mark was helping his son Drew move the sailboat from Lewisville to San Antonio (where Drew had accepted a new teaching job for the fall).  I'm not sure what happened the rest of the weekend - if we got together in one city or the other, traveled back north together, or what - I don't have any record of that.

I do know that I was back at my cousin Tom's home in Grapevine by Sunday, May 21.  I only had a few more hours to work to complete my assistantship contract at UNT, which I finished on Tuesday, May 23.  The next day, Wednesday, May 24, 2006 (circled on my paper calendar for that month), I moved in with Mark at his apartment in Granbury.

As I wrote to my friend Poom on Monday, May 22, 2006, 

"Tarleton State is in Stephenville, which is only 30 miles/minutes from Granbury!  So, I will start moving in with Mark (Breathless) later this week.  Today he is starting on the house hunt (we are planning to buy a house, or at the very least to rent something bigger) and I will join him to work on that later this week."

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Nineteen Years Ago: From Easter to Graduation

Above:  Mark Gresham and Amanda Pape, May 12, 2006, at her induction into the Beta Phi Mu, the international honor society for library and information sciences, Denton, Texas.

Back in 2006, a lot happened in the almost-four weeks between Easter (April 16) and the event pictured above (May 12).  With one minor exception (a quick update on April 27), there are NO e-mail exchanges between me and Mark from March 30 to May 14, 2006.  That's partly due to being able to talk to each other by phone for free (this was back in the days when some long-distance calls, even on cell phones, were not free), and also due to spending more time together in person.  But it was also due to my being incredibly BUSY.

I did, however, write a little bit about what was going on to some of my friends.  On Thursday, April 20, 2006, I told my friend Shannon, "It will be nice to be DONE with the schoolwork in about two weeks and able to concentrate more on the job hunt.  It's also nice to have Mark back in my life as he has assured me I don't have to worry about living expenses--if I just move in with him!"

On Friday, April 21, 2006, I drove from Grapevine to Granbury and spent the next four days with Mark before I went to Houston for the Texas Library Association conference (TLA).  I told him I had to get a lot of schoolwork and job apps done while there, though!  We did find time for some fun.

On Saturday, April 22, 2006, I finished my library school practicum at the Denton Public Library with a half-hour review with my supervisor there, Kathy Strauss.  Then Mark and I went on to the Denton home of my adviser, Dr. Sam Hastings, and her annual "Spring Fling" party for library school faculty, staff, alumni, and students.  I wrote Dr. Sam later to thank her "so much for making my sweetie feel so welcome at your party on the 22nd.  He really had a great time.  So did I!" 

TLA was April 25-28; I drove down to Houston on Tuesday the 25th as the first event I was attending was that evening.  I spent most of Wednesday 26th and Thursday 27th in the job placement center, since I was graduating in less than three weeks.  I had five informal interviews, spoke with someone I'd interviewed with at the American Library Association meeting back in January (they'd had construction delays at a new building so had slowed down on hiring new staff for it), and met the head of the search committee for the big interview coming up on May 9 at Texas A&M - Kingsville.

TLA ended on Friday, April 28, 2006, and I drove back to Granbury to spend some more time with Mark, before returning to Grapevine either late on Sunday, April 30, or early on Monday, May 1.  The final project in my last class was due at midnight April 30/May 1, and a bad storm had knocked out the internet at Mark's apartment, so we had to go to a local Starbucks for me to finish.

That first week of May, I was still working in my assistantship job in the Government Documents department at the University of North Texas Willis Library, and also preparing for the big interview - while continuing to apply for other jobs, even having a phone interview for another one that week.

By Friday, May 5, all I had left in coursework was one assignment and one test (online on May 10) in one class, so I headed to my parents' home in Fredericksburg.  I left Grapevine really early so I could go with my dad to his prostate cancer treatment in San Antonio. He was near the beginning of 28 days of business-day treatment where he made the hour-plus drive in for 25 minutes of radiation, then drove home. By going along with him, I could at least give my mother a break from the trips.

On Saturday, May 6, my parents and I drove to Austin for my nephew's First Communion. The next day, Mark came to Austin and met my parents and brother Mark, and then it was off to Corpus Christi.

We got into CC that evening and stayed with Tom and Susan Utter. Tom worked for the City when Mark and I did - Mark said he was the closest thing he had to a brother.  Mark had not told them he was back with me, so that was quite the surprise for them. 

They were great hosts with a lovely home, and we ate at some wonderful restaurants, and we also got the grand tour of all the changes in CC. There had been TONS since we lived there 20+ years ago, and a lot even since I last visited in 2000.  Mark was last there in 2003 to pull his sailboat, The Wagon, out of the CC Marina and give it to his son Drew.

The big interview at Texas A&M - Kingsville was Tuesday, May 9, 2006, 8am to 5pm. Talk about grueling! I had interviews with various groups and individuals, some more than once, and there was overlap in the groups.  Part of the reason was that librarians generally had faculty status at this university.  I thought the interviews went pretty well.  I felt relaxed and thought I generally gave good answers. Even the presentation I had to make went well, although it was not as polished as I would like.

After a nice celebratory dinner with Tom and Susan in CC that night, the next day, Wednesday, May 10, we made the 9-hour drive back to Granbury and Grapevine via Austin (to pick up my car).

I was back to work at my assistantship on Thursday and Friday, May 11 and 12 - I only had 32 hours to go on my contract at that point. On Friday the director of the library at Kingsville called and offered me the job.  As I had some other "irons in the fire," we agreed that I'd give her my decision by Thursday, May 18.

That evening was my induction into the Beta Phi Mu honor society.  Mark dressed up so nicely for the occasion!  We went out for dinner afterwards with his son Drew, who was then living and teaching in nearby Lewisville.

Come back tomorrow to find out what happened in the next twelve days!

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